Received an email--he's really a very sick guy :=(
Received an email--he's really a very sick guy :=(
I can't believe I'm going to say, what I'm about to say. You know, from dating a narc/psychopath, to breaking up with him...and to the end of the healing process--I want to say, your emotions do run the full gamut. From sadness, to anger, to rage, to enlightenment, to peace...you go through a lot in the stages of healing.
But, now? I have utter pity for this man. I didn't realize what a sick man he is. He sent me an email tonight. I have not heard directly from him in months. He would either bait me (to contact him) on a website we were on (for those who remember my threads about that), or he'd 'use' our friends to get to me. But hasn't directly reached out in a long while. His email said the following (no Hi Dee, nothing)...
''So! I broke up with my gf. You are all alike, Dee. Cunts!! Useless, ignorant cunts. Now, I'm off to find me another one. lol! Bye sweetie.''
What kind of a person does this? ''Sweetie'' is something he said when we would argue...and he'd say it in a very sinister way. 'Sweeeee--teeee'' Like that. Ugh. Makes my skin crawl.
Attached at the end of the email was a link to a new dating website he's on. (not the one he was on that my friends told me about, and that I saw him on, myself at one point) He had all these news pics of himself, with this mean...cold profile. Basically, telling women what he wants...and if they don't like it, don't bother replying.
Why did he send me this link??? I'm so disgusted by this, I don't know what to say. This hasn't sent my healing backwards. I know who he is, but everyone? He's sicker than I thought. I pray he leaves me alone. We live a thousand miles apart, thankfully. But, I haven't felt worried in a long time, over him.
No worries, everyone. Remaining NC. I had nothing to say to him before...and definitely nothing to say to him now.
Anyways, just sharing...any thoughts you have to this would be helpful. ((hugs))
Deidre
Deidre
Deidre40
I seriously want revenge
Deidre40
Ha, we knew this nut job,
something funny i thought of
oh my gosh, D...
sherbear
D, omg, this guy is a sick freak
caligirl
Dee
sunafterrain
It is sad
D, You're welcome!
caligirl
Dee
Admiration or Hatred
They dont know love
sunafterrain