The Shiny Brightness Of It All
The Shiny Brightness Of It All
The thing that really gets me about the N's that have come into my life is that they somehow seem brighter, shinier and larger than life as compared to others. It's almost as if you start getting addicted to these people because they seem to have cornered the market on charm.
Hanging around your "normal" friends almost seems drab and boring after spending time around an N. When N's aren't caught in their little dramas they seem to have this magical talent of making everything fun and making you feel like you are incredibly interesting and important. No wonder some of us attract these people over and over again. It's because their charm is very hard to resist. Even if you have had a bad patch with them, sometimes their charisma is so powerful that you get sucked right back in despite knowing better.
I am an "empath". And to me, one of the most puzzling things of all is that while empaths truly care about others they don't get nearly the regard or adulation that an N who only pretends to have empathy for others gets. Not that it is important to get that attention, but I always marvel that the "faux care and concern" wins people over way more readily than the genuine article. And that causes a lot of trouble because if the N is playing games, you end up in the crazy making role of them painting you to be the bad guy, while making themselves seem like martyrs. It's a very exhausting and soul defeating experience!
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Yes, this is exactly true.
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VOR, great observation
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