Close friend has re-friended the exN
Close friend has re-friended the exN
I am not sure what to do.
A close female friend who has been my rock throughout the whole D&D process and PTSD recovery has accepted a friend request from my exN.
She knows him and was friends with him while we were dating. She has no interest in him whatsoever and I know that as a fact but she accepted his friend request on FB just to see what was going on as she had heard he was losing his job and selling his horse.
When she told me she accepted his request I got physically ill. I told her what I was feeling including the physical reaction. Her response was that she knows what a jerk he is and he will delete her the first time they have a disagreement but right now she just sees it as a curiosity thing.
I find that in my recovery from the exN I liked knowing she had no contact with him and I had a safety "bubble" for want of a better word. I felt that my friends had no contact with him so I had no access so no temptation. I feel like that safety is gone.
I don't know what to do. I am not here to tell my friend who to be friends with. I know she will not discuss me with him as she has been on the receiving end of his tirades a number of times.
Any suggestions as whether to just let it all lie or NC the friend? We are very close and spend time together all the time.....
I sound like a dog who won’t
I agree with Deidre. This
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
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This happened to me 20 years
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I respectfully disagree.
Agreed
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