Are you sure he won't change for her?
Are you sure he won't change for her?
My N spent 11 years avoiding settling down - when we did move in together it lasted 5 months and he started to stay out all nite and avoid me! But this was 6 years into our relationship.....
We broke up, we got back together....etc
Finally we got married but as u all know that lasted all of 6 weeks.....at this time we were house hunting but he'd always get out of commiting to a property.
Anyways, he leaves me for OW and moves in right away and they have a cosy little apartment together??
So its hard to think he hasn't changed for her when he's already commiting to something straight away that he wouldn't for me?
Another thing i'm struggling with is that i now know whenever we had these breaks (push/pull, hot/cold, silent treatments) was always when he had met someone else. As much as i don't condone what he did and think he's a complete dickhead.....we were on a break so i can't call them affairs? Or can i?
The only difference with this time is that he has found someone he loved more that he actually has made the break properly and chosen to be with her - in this instance i am not the more attractive option even though i was his newly wedded wife
I find it all rather confusing and i want to be at a place where i understand it enough to not care anymore????
Thankyou girls as usual for
They don't
No, he won't change
the OW...
Maybe this will help
SCOOPS Blog...
NARCS CHANGE??
JMI
If he has made any changes
JMi
Cgrl - 'he walked out the
JMI
Better with her???LOL!!
What matters is you
JMI
great info ...
Wow... I needed to read this!
Michelle What strikes me most
First, all he's committing to
Journey on...
Thankyou Journey You're right
That is brutal!
Journey on...
Jmi