Consequences...another question
Consequences...another question
I was writing this comment initially to reply to "does he care about consequences", then I realized I actually was addressing more issues...I have finally heard the first apology.. Of course now I'm a bigger mess than before but ... Could their apology ever be real...maybe he's not a N (diagnosed by me), maybe he just been A selfish jerk. My dad asked me to sit back & just watch because "Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks"..I said what? He said what someone feels deep & real will come out & people speak with their mouth & actions...so if u aren't ready (& u have 2 be the one no one can see for u) sit back and watch..Is he sorry for hurting you or is he sorry for hurting you because now he's in trouble & has to go to jail? Of course daddy says, "u have always been strong & independent because of the lifestyle I chose (complete turnaround now & positive changes), & I know you love completely & do anything 4 that person..let it be done 4 you..you r worthy of complete love..I pray 4 this man everyday..promise to just watch & really hear what comes out." Gotta luv them daddys :) so my questions are: Sorry 4 situation or truly sorry? Can someone have narcissist tendencies, but not be this evil lowdown N, instead a man with some issues with selfishness & anger & is just a plain "panty wedge aka pain in the butt". If so, can there really be a life changing event that is so much that their eyes open up? I know, I'm a forever optimist...& its either biting me in the tail right now or eventually will. Its unbelievable at all that I can even see the good...story coming soon, well maybe not to soon..probably a 2 parter.....yeah what a life. ~brokenglass~
U ALL r right!!...consequences
Ok...so I had been an
No, i think they are only worried about themselves
Hi Brokenglass, what a great
Journey on...
journey, graciously put..
Sorry? For having an affair?
affair?? sparrow & reddley..thank u 4 standing up 4 me..go sista
Maybe he had a little man
Even if he's not a Narc... he's abusive PERIOD!
Apologies
Ruby
Real Apology
Holding on to ..
What is fake and what is not
Galations 6:7
I hear what joy2me is saying
oh lillymarch...u hit the nail on the head