Breaking UP* EX & Me Therapy Appt
Breaking UP* EX & Me Therapy Appt
Hi
I have decided to ask EX to attend therapy with me on Thursday to finally end it for good and discuss whatever we both need to discuss and get it over with!!
I feel like this is a safe choice for me that achieves a few positive things for us both
This is not couples therapy to work it out this is to end it and for us to be able to communicate in a clear way with assistance from professional.
After he got out of jail he sent me some very, very mean messages cussing at me and taking his anger out on me he has been so out of control (Journey you were right!) and I don't want to be around him or for him to show up at my place while he is in that mind set!
he liked the idea of meeting me on Thursday & has calmed him down but I am afraid he will have an expectation of that meeting and what it means for us.
He and I will not ever come to agree about what is best but I want to have the chance to tell him my reasons why I don't want to try anymore and I want to show him how his actions have affected me and I want to discuss how his anger and outbursts make me feel!
is this realistic? I don't know!
The end result will be to break up.
*going to therapy to break up? yes! I hope so! didn't I already move out ? I just need some help here to do this! I don't know what else to do honestly!
All he needs to do is go meet this therapist on his own on Wednesday (maybe this will be good for him). He has agreed to that appt and taking time off work, but I am sure he is thinking he is getting his way. I do not want to ambush him either but the session is to confront and deal with breaking up for good now.
He wrote me earlier "I felt like I was falling off the edge for minute there, now I feel like I have something to hold on to again. Thanks for not giving up on me ,on us!"
ugh I don't intend to lead him on at all but I want to get him to this appointment so badly!
I hope this will be helpful for each of us to move on and clear the air!
I am hoping this will work there is so much I can't control I am trying to keep focused on my goal of getting this man out of my life now
I can't control if he lets me go or not but I need to do something!
whatever feelings I was holding on to have dissipated in the last few months time he is mean to me when he doesn't get his way he suspects me of things I haven't done and calls me name now that he never did before it's so much worse now broken up than any fight we ever had never thought I could feel so hated by him , it happens so quickly he turns on me.
I can't do this anymore I don't want this in my life any longer. God I pray this is the right thing and the right way to achieve it!
I hope this is a good idea I don't know what else to do !
Badabing
Not a good idea
@ Susan 32
Stick with your therapist instead...
Bada
I will be careful
so right
my intention
Different situation
Ally
BB
Bada, I agree with all these
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
@ Myst
I truly, truly understand
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
thank u myst
God, Bada, how I can totally
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
thanks k
bada...
thanks
bada...
I have to agree with Pretty
Journey on...
@ Journey
To be honest, I'm quite
I AGREE WITH PRETTYPEEVED!!
Ok
I am not dragging him to
OK, that was a poor choice of
@ pretty
You have been clear to US
Journey on...
I hear you