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May 30 was final D&D. I wish I could do the time line on the other million D&D's.

at the end of March, his behaviour started to change at the beginning of June (the ex GF was back on the scene I've since found out) and I called him out on his shit in October and left his ass in November ... he then proceeded to call, crying on the phone professing his love blah blah right up until April this year and then he became nasty and I said NO MORE a month ago!

in Mid May and that was right after I got dumped. Honestly though pretty sure I've been dumped in winter, spring, summer and fall. I know I always got ditched before Christmas and Valentines Day.

June 18th for me

"There is a time to sow, there is a time to reap."-Ecclesiastes My final D&D went from late August-November/December. Basically, when autumn becomes winter... and winter is a season of death&hibernation (especially in the Rockies, when the aspens turn red&gold) The final D&D began approximately in September- that also happens to be the month of my sister's birthday, the pastor friend who died from cancer during the D&D... and now my brother in-law. The ex-Psych prof also has a September birthday. The reigning signs of August/September are Virgo/Libra. Virgo is usually interpreted as Astraea (goddess of human law, whereas Themis is goddess of divine law) and Nemesis... who punished Narcissus. Libra-the scales, evening everything out, bringing balance. Autumn isn't mating season. Hardly. It's when many animals migrate;birds fly south.

Mine started flirting with me more on FB in the Fall, around October. Unbeknownst to me, he was still married and involved with previous OW, with whom his online FB relationship started around September. By December, things were really heating up with me and ending with previous OW (I still didn't know she was in the picture). By the end of January, we met up for the first time and physically and consummated the relationship. I thought things were over before that with previous OW, but now I think he was still stringing her along and things REALLY didn't end with her until then. He separated from his wife in May and we met up again and shared our best weekend together a week later. Things were in the honeymoon phase with us until around mid to late June when I first felt him pulling away. Found out later he was trying to hoover previous OW during that same time period. Around late September into October is when I experienced my first real D&D. Looking back, there were smaller ones before that, but this was where things got really insane. I believe he may have been grooming new OW over the phone and through texting/emails during the Holidays while he was with me but pulling away again, and during the month of January while he was still stringing me along (not sure when the initial contact started). On the EXACT date a year after we first had sex, he consummated his relationship with new OW and dumped me. Last I heard, his divorce is supposed to be final in September and he plans to marry new OW soon afterwards. His cycle might not exactly fit the one described in Tom Sheridan's blog, but there definitely looks like a cycle! Wow! He hasn't tried to hoover me recently like he did last year with previous OW, but I have him blocked on FB and live across the country. She's STILL on his friends list and lives in the same state.

April 12th weird

He came back in June! I ended it in July...This was very interesting!

My N was reorganizing and "figuring himself out" this spring...D&D me but still trying to keep me around as an option or back up supply!! Got back with his OW end of May. But I have to say dont alot of people want to be partnered in the summer months?? Especially with a new or refreshed OW? In the fall he has always come back around to me..We have years of memories in the fall. NOT THIS TIME!! NOT THIS FALL!!

Back and forth BS in April. D&D two weeks later on May 3. So fast my head is still spinning with disbelief more than 2 and half months later.

Unbelieveable!! In April is when my former infant decided to have the biggest tantrum I have ever seen...and the last week of June is when he took it to new "physical" levels and I had his tail arrested!

Oh my gosh, I had never even thought of this. This article rang so true. I hooked up with xnh in late spring or early summer. I can't really remember exactly when because it was almost 17 years ago. At the time, he dumped his first wife suddenly and targeted me as his "soul mate". Xnh dumped me on May 12, 2010, and I soon found out that he'd cheated with OW a while before the D&D. I filed papers with my lawyer the next day and the divorce was final June 10. So I guess, in my case, it was like that old zombie movie..."28 Days Later" and he was just another brainless dead thing to me, out there preying on the world. At least now (hopefully), I'm well enough vaccinated that I can't be infected again by his species. lol.

6/6 was the day he was thrown out :-) and 6/6 was the day I began the healing process.

I started seeing my N in November and by April, he was moving on, so to speak... Then, said see you in November... This article explained my N perfectly... Kinda Ery... Yuck!

I was D&D in April.. He told me he would see me in November... He has been trying to get in contact with me about once a month. But, he has been hoovering this week.. And, It has only been two weeks since his last hoover attempt... Weird!!!

Every year near my brith day, Usually days before,.I often attributed the change in behavior to the soltice??. Some odd gravitational pull dramatically affecting select people Brian waves? Same phenomena that can be attributed to full moon and crime perhaps?