I want to send this...Why shouldn't I??
I want to send this...Why shouldn't I??
I texted him last night (don't ask me why!!), and his newest girlfriend had the NERVE to text me back for him that he is "BUSY." I am PISSED! Here's what I wrote:
J...
You allowed your so-called "girlfriend" to text me last night that you are "busy"? That tells me that you are both very immature. I am sure you have made me out to be another of your "crazy exes". Your newest "girlfriend" has no idea what she is in store for yet with you.
Have you ruined her trips yet? Gotten mad at her for stupid trivial things? Have you walked out or hung up on her because you "didn't like the way the conversation was going"? Made her feel bad about having a different opinion? Broken up with her because you couldn't get your way? If she has met your boys, have you demeaned her in front of them yet? Made her feel like she has no say in anything that has to do with them? Have you made your mental checklists and timelines with her yet? Is she passing all of your impossible tests? Has she failed to read your mind yet? Have you blamed her for all of the problems that you created in your relationship yet? Did you tell her she knows you better than anyone ever has, and then tell her she never knew you, and that you are 'strangers now'? Have you dropped the anvil on her over and over again yet? Made her feel like she can't get upset with your crappy behavior, or else you will "need your space" and/or break up with her? How about a few doses of the silent treatment? Did you tell her to stay feisty, then tell her she's too argumentative for you? Have you told her that if she doesn't want to participate in kinky sex acts with other people, that she doesn't want to know the 'real you' yet? How about the passive-aggressive games? The PITA crap?
Basically, have you BROKEN HER DOWN yet?
If not, you eventually will, because that is what you do. She will find out soon enough. I feel sorry for the girl. It won't be long before you discard her like every other person in your life, including your family and friends, who doesn't meet up with your impossible and ridiculous standards. Then, she won't be so smug. After dealing with the aftermath of your narcissistic abuse, maybe she will one day understand what all of the people who have cared about you have been through!
M
I bet that wasnt even her
sunny
OK, OK! I won't send it!
You perfectly summed them up.
NO! You are not the crazy
AGREED - DON'T SEND
why not send
Veedoll
yep
Firstly excelent rant ! thats
I echo everyone else...DO NOT
dont send...
was it his girlfriend
That's what I think! A narc
Hunter, My ex-n used to GIVE
sunny, sweetheart,
spinning
Thank you (not) spinning!
Spinning is right
Nice to write, probably best
May I be frank?