Plateau in Healing or Step Backwards?
Plateau in Healing or Step Backwards?
I seem to have reached a plateau in healing. Or maybe I'm going backwards?
I know CharlieSheenWinning is bad for me and that his quickie marriage to NewWinningWife won't last -- or if it does, it will be terminally f'd up. He married her after only knowing her for 3 weeks, so how can that be good?
What I'm finding now is time has taken the edge off the abuse and now I'm missing my friend. I thought we were friends, but since I broke things off and he got together with NWW literally *the day after*, he hasn't contacted me. I might as well be dead as far as he's concerned and that hurts.
It's been a little over 3 months of NC. I don't intend to break that -- but I wonder if I'm healing (letting go of anger and hurt) or if I'm going backwards.
This whole process is confusing as hell.
LOBO
The difference is my *real*
It is such a huge thing to
This process does not follow an ascending order
missing a friend
Could he really have baggage
Lobo - don't get excited...the baggage isn't what it appears.
michele
The original baggage
Thank you, Michele
My pleasure Janine
I was married to a borderline
Lobo
You are in shock still, I am
It's been almost a year for
Hi Mandy
badgerbruno
I need a pill to make me
Lobo
Emotionally drink and drive
*I am trying to be rational.
I wonder the same thing!
Lobo, I'm almost four months
The OW part is the hardest
That was exactly how I felt.