His silence is making me question everything
His silence is making me question everything
I've cut contact, almost two weeks now. A part of me hoped that he would try to reach out to me in some way...no attempt on his part. I start to think about the last conversation we had where he made me feel wrong and that I wasn't good enough. I wonder if he found someone else and if she is everything he wants and is giving her everything he didn't give to me. All normal thoughts, I suppose...but I just can't get over it.
Does he not see a point of contacting me since he's moving away in a few months? Will he try to contact me before he moves? Hurts to realize he probably never, ever cared at all and that he got to use me. I finally called him out in a way and he was "sorry it had to end this way." I was hoping he'd have tried to mend things, but what would be the point? He'd only repeat it again. It makes me mad to think he just went about his business without a blink of an eye, smiling that cruel smile. Maybe he's just an asshole and not a narcissist? Maybe he's just too good at his deception. If he contacted me, I'd feel validated. I wonder what he even thinks of me, if anything at all..
Also, here's another way to
You are so so right on!!!
deecbee
Now let's see if I can
I had a newer post where he
HUNTER IS RIGHT. They are
NPD/APD
Your ex and my ex sound quite
mind games
I don't know how they pick up
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P.S. Mine also used the words
reallyconfused
Hmm I think your at the stage
Hi ....and welcome. Sorry for
It is important to know one
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Take this quiet time and heal yourself. Narc totally silent
For your library..
I'd warn you now that if
Playing Games
I'm not playing games. I told
He is responding to your wish
Why would complete silence
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Heres a link to the "silent
Another Link - Silent Treatment
thanks for that link scoop
I need all the advice I can