If your Narc is over 40
If your Narc is over 40
Mine is 47 and never in the last seven years has he made an effort to do anything. For him or anyone else. I guess what I want to know is those of you that were with older Ns did it seem like they were just tired of even having to go all out with pretending?
I see stories on here where people were swept off their feet in the beginning, but mine never made much effort from the start. I think we went out three times in the beginning but eventually he literally turned into a hermit.
I can't even imagine him ever putting out very much effort to pull anyone in EVER.
So was it just me or do you think they get sick of doing it over and over and it always ending the same?
I'm thinking maybe I was just too easy and I will get the shock of a lifetime and hear about him actually taking someone on a date.
mine was lazy
ifinallygotit
power bunny
Aceonelady
Huge effort
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache
oh ya, i forgot something
indifferencesucks
never made an effort
I think regardless of Age
Same old, same old
sad old narc
in bed
Resignation
CharlieSheenWinning was more
ruby01
Mine is
Now that he's almost 50...
onwithmylife
onwithmylife
ruby01 for you
He is now
I forgot...
I meant to add
I fully understand this one!
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Lazy narcs
My N was ectremely energetic
Kiddunn - sounds like your N
She was never diagnosed with