The Narcissist with Animals
The Narcissist with Animals
Hi All,
My ex N has a lovely dog, who is very well trained. At first I thought that N was very adoring of the animal and generally loved him.
But as time went on I began to see weird controlling behaviors. I realised that the dog was not there for his own pleasure, but merely a puppet to control.
We were in the car one day off out for a walk and the dog was getting excited - queue an horrendous emergency stop - to which the dog went flying into the back of me.
I also witnessed the inappropriate use of a choke chain and a couple of other overly forced incidents.
His behaviour over the dog was twisted - controlling, cruel but then full of adoration.
Sometimes I worry that, perhaps when I was not there, his behaviour towards the dog would be of some concern.
I should have seen these flags coming a mile off :-(
Did anyone else witness their N being cruel to animals?
Obviously children are the biggest concern under the care of an N - however I myself do not have children, so do not have this experience to relate to.
xx
YUP
OMG....Do i ever..
LML
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