Cheating twisted to be my fault
Cheating twisted to be my fault
Good Sunday Everyone!
This just came to me this morning. During d & d, he said that he had gone into my computer and looked at my search history and found a search for "how can you tell if your husband is cheating" or something like that. (Another question just hit, why did he check out my searches in the first place?)
Well he said that this was one of his reasons, that I did not trust him, how could I do that, just totally twisted it to be my fault.
Guess what? He was cheating...think I was catching on and he needed to bolt?
As I sit here and think about this and write it down, it just boggles my mind. How the hell did I do this for over 30 years?
For years, I would bring a concern of mine or a lack of something I was not getting from him and the next thing I knew, it was twisted (and that was the word that always came to mind) and my fault.
My head is just spinning......
Projection, projection,
Journey on...
" I would bring a concern of
My narc cheated on me and
Same here. I was insecure and
Oh yes, the same here. Xnh
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
What I heard was "You drove
I have heard that one too!
I am sorry
future56