HELP suicidal Hooverer
HELP suicidal Hooverer
I have been trying to maintain NC for the past 3 1/2 weeks and have only seen him once when he turned up desperate and crying. He was leaving flowers on my door step and txting me which I ignored. He turned up at my house today again very upset and has now told me that he lied to me throughout our whole relationship about his financial situation , had attemped suicide during one of our breakups and was going to suicide the other day when he left here but his sister turned up and stopped him. He hashed through all the crap with me and told me he knows he was wrong and put me last. He was trying to suck me back in. He is going to the Phycyotrist tomorrow and wanted to know if i would go to talk to his shrink at a later date.
He seemed to have an answer for everything and I really did start feeling sorry for him. I wanted to hug him and take care of him but I didnt. He kept saying that if we got back together it would be different cause he would move in with me and my kids(we always lived in seperate houses)and he kept talking about how he should have married me and committed more to me.
He is making out like he has seen the light and has a long journey of self exceptance to go through and then we will be happy together. Can an N really change?
I really didnt say much to him other than I like the way i am now and dont want to go back to being that person again. He said he didnt want me to be that person either and wanted the person he first met.
He has given me a major head fuck today. I was doing so well and now dont know what way is up. Please I need some help. I have started to rebuild my life and now I am doubting myself and feeling like if he gets help maybe it would be different. Do they change?
HELP !!!!!!!
Everything I have read say
PLEASE DON'T BELIEVE HIM!!!
He won't change....Narcs
Your not going to believe
STAY STRONG!! XX
3 day Psych hold
Mynewlife
Attempted suicide… HAHAHAHA,
EXACTLY HUNTER
N and suicide
I haven't had this kind of
change
change
Please dot go back to him,
STAY STRONG!! XX