What would you do?
What would you do?
When I got into my N's email and found out the truth, I emailed the OW, his wife and made a comment on the blog of an old girl friend of his that is a teacher overseas (his supply when he's in Asia) telling her everything but I did it anonymously. She just commented on it today, a month later she said:
"I just read some anonymous comments on this blog about the old boyfriend from Texas that true or not, will have to be dealt with. Why me Lord? It's such a pain"
Do I contact her again or just leave it alone? I think I should leave it alone but I HATE the idea of another woman being his victim. I don't think she even knew he was married because when he was over there, she blogged a lot about how they were waiting to have sex because they were going to get married. Then he D&D'd her and didn't talk to her again until the day after I found out, she drunk dialed him and he called her back, after over a year of NC (she blogged about it). Of course he told me she meant nothing to him. I found out about her through comments she'd made on his fb, I googled her name and found her blog early on but he said she was "just a friend" and "delusional" and thought it was funny that "a woman out there thinks I was going to marry her because I wouldn't sleep with her". He then admitted "I might have told her something like that as an excuse not to fuck her". (Why, oh why, did I fall for this man?)
I would handle this with a
Reaching out to her , might
I thought of doing that, but
Given that she already has "trauma" issues
Thanks for all the advice...I