Notes

I was cleaning a drawer this morning (looking for tax document, yeah yeah, I know) I came across dozens of post it notes. I'm kind of a weirdo, when I read something profound or touching I scribble it on a post it and save it for later. I have hundreds of them because of the narc. I've been trying to kick my narc addiction for at least 2 years. I thought I'd share. There is no rhyme or reason to them. I'm glad I found them this morning.

This pathologically damaged individual is far too skilled at hurting someone.

I stayed thinking that I would win. In order to win there has to be a prize. He is no prize. All I won was heartache.

You cannot play mental chess with a pathological. They win. Narcs hit harder.

A relationship that ends is not a failure or a punishment, it is a lesson.

Narc's have no regard for the social contract, only to use it to their advantage. Sociopathy - the inability to process emotional experiences, including love and caring.

Doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result is the definition of insanity.

There is no treatment for a disordered person. They have no ability to change or repair. They cannot grow a conscience. They are malignant, cruel and abusive.

I no longer believe in your illusion. I have seen behind the mask of sanity and I no longer choose to deal with a disordered individual.

Every iron wears out!

Any addiction is a technique to avoid feelings and intimacy with others. A maladaptive coping skill to keep other people at at distance.

I no longer want to be a frequent flyer on the crazy train. You have taken my light and I became your darkness.