what do they think? how do they feel? Did he love me?
what do they think? how do they feel? Did he love me?
You really don't have to dig too much for the anwers they are actually right in front of you. Just examine your self and write down how you feel and I promise all of the horrible things you start to feel about yourself is actually how they feel about themselves. Its like they are personality snatchers. The come into our lives and project all of the vile feelings they have about themselves and then extract every positive thing about you and how you feel about yourself and take it for themselves.
I truly believe this is why this is why we begin to exhibit some of their crazy behavior and they begin to take on the traits That we value most in ourselves even mimicing our behavior and interests.
So if you want to know what he truly thinks and feels about himself just look inthe mirror at yourself and you will know. They hollow us out harvesting the best parts of us and then they introjects the worst of their feelings into us.
Another little trick I learned is to reverse the pronouns intheir sentences. Replace I with and you with I. If you remember everything is opposite and inverted in narcville. It has to do with the mirroring. They love what they and hate what they love
So when you start to really feel down on yourself about being inadequate or less than stop and think to yourself are these really my feelings or are they his? I have suffered with enmeshment issues with the narc not knowing what were actually my feelings and what were his that were projected on to me
I agree
Yes
THIS IS HOW THEY FEEL SICK OF IT
Oh yes I have read this
Sorry for all the typos and
This is so good sick of it!
This is really good, sick of
Yes Deirdre you are gettin it
Oh and to answer the question