Co Dependency a camera that focuses on you - Are you camera shy
Co Dependency a camera that focuses on you - Are you camera shy
What I find remarkably funny is that we get pages and pages of narcissim thrown on our lap and we aprove it claim our partners it and move on..
We get the same amountof pages of co dependency now thrown on our lap ..we then say no its to heavy..too much to be me..i feel hurt and accused..your blaiming I the victim..
Sounds a little unfair when you, look at it like that ladies..
Were all a go for the reasons definition even forums and threads of narcissisism..but when the finger is now point at us ..we flat line...
Why?
Is it because some of the traits dont fit you to a T..did they forget to add your social security number or something...
Is it because its too harsh of a wording..too defined..too co dependent..
Is it becausd they say we lacked empathy at one point of our life..we didnt like ourselves at one point of our lives..we would do anything for people at one point in ourlives..etc. Etc
The big picture is tgat it was in one point of our lives.. And how are we so sure we are not any of those things in any definition of co dependrnt defines..
How do we know we wasnt abused by a abuser before our current abuser..that may have caused our co dependency..i.e mother..dad..brother..ucle..teacher etc
How are we so sure thst it blaims us..
You see I beleive co dependency blaims the abusers..may that be the abusers before the nv src..mom.. dad..it really portrays the after effect of wgat the originsl abuser gas done..
Now I beleive many of.us entered a toxic relationship..toxic ourselves..a lot may say they had a notmval life..but define normal
Even if a shrink define never labeled you co dependendent ..did he or she say you had low self esteem..woukd do anything for people..did they say basically your co dependent in so many other words...
Theres nothing I see wrong with growing and developing out of co dependency..entirily and growng out of being narcissism victims..
I dont know about you but I lke the camera..
Rock On My Sister!!!
Im happy and thrilled you
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
Exactly! or you are sitting
But what about those of us
AND I'm Strong
Altruism
That is true what works for
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
I'm strong
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"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
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Exactly..
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
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There are several other posts
Excuse me when did agreeing
whoa!Are you honestly saying
yes thats what Im saying! OK
Exactly and I too feel im not
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
I made a post asking other
Did you read the other posts?