if they are so happy

if they are so happy with their new supply why do they keep coming back to try and contact us ...every since October 1st I've been trying to stay NC ...unknown to me my son had wrote a very lengthy and bitter email to my ex female narc blasting her with both barrels ...I didn't know what he had done til she forwarded me the email asking me to keep our private conversations private (between us) I said I share what is important to those who love and care about me and vice versa ...she asked why I told anyone about the conversation of us breaking up ...I thought it was a free country and people need to talk about such things with someone is all I said ...then I get another one threatening to notify the authorities if she is contacted by my kids again ...my boys are grown out on their own living their own lives I have no control over what they say ...we hardly if ever see each other and then its because they need something ...i asked her 2 more times to lease stop contacting me ...nicely I might add she said she was sorry for causing me any grief over the subject and suggested it was some underlying problem with my personality ...I said I am moving on ...then she said well all I do is work and come home Im not seeing anyone one else ...LIE ...she is in fact and has it plastered all over FB ...this according to some close friends I dont stalk her page and dont look at things to remind me of her I am really trying to move on ...so again why the contact if they are so happy with their new life ...then get mad and say they wont ever contact you again ...this is craziness I dont need