Narc at work but I was romantically involved with him, need advise (Love issue)
Hi All,
I am new to this forum, like most of those who have gone through.
I was in love with a colleague at work, he did the typical idealise, devalue and discard cycle.
First 3 month were wonderful and then his personality issues started creeping. Lots of lies and hiding of information. He told me that he was done with his ex but was still in touch with her everyday. His excuse was that she has cancer. I tolerated and believed that he genuinely meant to support her health.