Do Looks Matter To An N?

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Apr 19 - 12AM (Reply to #5)
Scooters Mom
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cerebral one here

i believe? We were at a nursing home quit often after his aunt had suffered a stroke and one day he said to me "have you noticed that there is not one attractive person that works here?" He said that people who cant be models must go to nursing school. He would always mention what people looked like. He even put ad's for employees on Craiglist for bartenders and stated "attractive females"Some guy wrote him back and said that he would rather go to a bar and talk to someone with a brain than just someone who was attractive and that he thought that just because it has large breasts and blonde hair doesnt make it more interesting. I was laughing on the inside when he was reading it. He never responded to the guy either.
Jul 8 - 11PM (Reply to #4)
James (not verified)
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is he/she cerebral or somatic?

is he/she cerebral or somatic? One interesting point is how as it was explain that a N could be more cerebral or somatic throughout most of their life but can change (convert) into a somatic/cerebral N if something happen to cause them the need if only temporary to adapt this behavior for supply. They will maintain this type (Somatic/Cerebral) of behavior until the event/need is achieved and then they will return back to that behavior which they feel more in control of in view to that “false self“. This of course explains why some victims see them become someone unknown to them after their D&D. It’s this chameleon ability that leaves others feeling like “who is this person really?”. Because they have no real (core) personality they are able to incorporate other people’s personality so well. This of course allow them to “hook” the new supply i.e. victim until after the honeymoon stage promotion (etc) is over and then revert back to whatever type they are more comfortable with and/or relate to that false self. In short at one time they are a more traditional conservative family type but then they become players/cheaters much like the "new supply" and this can happen very quickly. It's be reported that they will even start acting and behaving like the new supply i.e. victim. A very good example of this behavior is Scott Peterson.
Jul 8 - 8PM
Bittersweet
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Thanks!

Thanks for your input ladies...i guess there is no real way of identifying what my N's pattern of women were...i just can go off what he told me (which means nothing)....and since we always focused on MY PAST instead of his, I dont have much! Great Reads! I wasnt easy to control...i guess thats why he left only after 5 months...lol
Nov 11 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
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Looks

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