How could the other woman still take him back after all he has done? I don't get it?
How could the other woman still take him back after all he has done? I don't get it?
I am still at a loss for understanding regarding this: Its been since Aug30 that I found out about my exN and other women and that the whole relationship was one big farce. I contacted the other woman whose phone number I happened to find on his old cell phone bill. I reached out to her in hopes to prevent her from going thru what I went thru. Despite her know that I was pregnant by him, had an abortion, was living with him, him claiming he wanted to marry me, blah, blah, blah...I could hear the desperation in her voice as if saying "please don't take him away from me...". I was not a competition to her, I was trying to inform her...yet she viewed me as competition and chose to stay with him. He is now in prison for not paying $60 thousand dollars in child support...she is still with this guy doing all his legal work. I just don't understand this. One this I had observed was that he would make seem as if "us against the world", yet the problems consistently stemmed from the internal; with him being the common denominator...
Hall of mirrors
the drama of it...
Excellent observation
devvie
Hi Loura
Thanks Dallas
Welcome to NarcvilleFirst,WE
Interesting. Funny thing is that I did dump him
Loura
Thank you for your response
Loura
Police his relationship?
Loura, this was
spinning
Yes I agree we are all the OW to a point.....
Loura - Really? She deserves
Yes, really, you deserve what you choose
I too deserve what I get for not choosing to enable...
To answer your initial
That's very true....
How are you any different
The difference is that I choose to leave & not enable him...
Hit rock bottom? And then
You're basically saying you
Journey on...
That's what I want to learn, how to let go...
You done this for YOU not
You're right, I wanted her to dump him too...
I said that when we have
Okay "Used" if you wish to quibble that you said ...
So when I say something its
It seems to me that there is a lot of projecting going on...