Conflicting thoughts about sex
Conflicting thoughts about sex
A male friend of mine moved to another city late last year and wants to visit me now. He has told me how he is in love with me and asked me to stay in a hotel with him for one night when he visits since I said he isn't able to stay at my place. I have known him a year now.
I don't trust him. It isn't really that I think he is bad or will mistreat me but I don't trust any man right now and really don't want any man near me, not even to touch or kiss me.
The thing is, he is quite attractive and young, my age, I have only ever been with a 39 year old man (who I loved being with and holding but that it was quick). Sometimes I imagine how it might be nice so it's hard to understand how most of the time I feel repulsed by any man being close to me right now.
I'm concerned that when he does visit he will get me to give in if I am in one of those moods where I feel more attracted to him or men in general than repulsed.
I guess that's a normal thing to feel?
I've talked to my psychologist about this and I know what it would take to want to be with a man again is trust and I'm not ready for that. I just don't want to do something I will feel upset about later, I have to be honest with this friend about how I don't trust him right now.
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Why does this have to be
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WOW!
LG - - - a F*ck is a F*ck is a F*ck...
Look
Cynical....that's me as I
Can YOU say, I'm worth more
What are you saying?
We met one night at a mutual
SEX IS NOT LOVE
Though he is beautiful I
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Thanks. I loved my ex so
Very good, letting go! Don't
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If I
Paying for it
He has chased me for a year,
Chasing
Try telling him
You're not even dating him.
Damn straight!
That's true. I should raise
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I hadn't thought of that in
I hear
It doesn't matter what he
How do I be firm with them
Just say no. If this man gets
NO MAN