Question....
Question....
So I keep reading up on NPD and trying to apply it against my ex, who appears in a lot of ways to be a narc --especially the idealization, cheating, devaluing, lack of empathy, feeling of jealousy, needing to be the best, etc.
My question is around the idea of abuse. Mine never physically abused me, and often times he appeared to surfacely be "my biggest supporter" according to him. He was there for me day in and day out, not always the way I would have hoped, but he tried. I think the biggest thing is always made it out like I was too emotional, full of ups and downs, when truthfully, sometimes I was simply calling him out on his behavior or asking him to talk about our relationship. He'd get upset if I criticized him at all, and felt like if I asked any questions about his job, etc., that I wasn't supportive.
He seemed to be there for me, so I keep wondering if he really is a narc...
Accusing you of being the loose cannon
That definitely rings a bell.
No question, he's a narc.
tragically confused
Hey BB, the others have made
This does help me...
Hey BB Im glad this helped.
It is painful to realize all
same same but longer...
Hi BB, Janemarie hit the nail
Journey on...
Thanks Journey, just hard to
And 'acting' is the key word
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I think my problem is I still
I understand it's tough, but
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ok, BB, I just want you to consider
spinning
Spinning and Journey...
Yes, they are MASTER
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Journey, thank you. I can't
You're welcome BB, keep in
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I started the list, but
Today they announced my new
I started the list, but
If he wants nothing to do
Journey on...
I know he dropped me because
denial. anger. barganing. depression. acceptance.
BB
This man reeks so bad of Narc
For sure
my exnarc
My Husband