His Obsession With My Past
His Obsession With My Past
I just had a really traumatizing experience with a narcissist, i believed and felt everything was real and than I could feel him fading away and would find me less and less happy and when I brought it to his attention, he always had excuses. So one day, he said he needed his space but in the next breath I should move on, there was no emotion or feeling, he also said he cannot forgive me for my past.
You see after we were intimate, he used to interrogate me, ask me questions, am i the best? have you ever said that to another partner? have you ever been this way? too how many people i have slept with in the past to the hook ups, do be honest I couldnt remember everything and sometimes my story would change and he would think i was being dishonest. (like that was my intention or like i even wanted to talk about the past) He was insisted on knowing more and more and it would throw me into depression. He would stop the car and interrogate me to extremes and then apologize and love me again, not sure why i put up with it because that was the only real downfall i viewed us as perfect!
I am wondering why the obsession with the past? has anyone ever experienced this? He also always wanted to be intimate three to five times daily. Was that him projecting because he has something to hide? Or his way of devaluing me? His last words to me were bottom line, I cant forgive your past, I wake up angry with you everyday and noone will ever accept your past and you will never meet anyone as good as me. This was a sudden switch in personality i have never witnessed and hasnt contacted me since over a week ago. Is he going to contact me?
Do you suggest doing anything like writing an email? Letting him know i know who he is? Should I give everything he gave me back? Does it even matter to someone like this? I dont know, i really have to stop obssessing. He drove me crazy and i often thought this is not going to work out, but the no contact thing i just cant comprehend, its like he died and our relationship never existed.
It's my opinion that he was
past
he might
Is He Going To Contact Me Down The Road
cherlynn76
cherlynn76
Got it, no contact
Thanks for your response
Obsession with past
It sounds like you're dating my Ex.
rll1997