Soon to be EX is getting ideas!!!!
Soon to be EX is getting ideas!!!!
Hi all.
My "secret" plan is going to be in 3 phases - 1st is to find a new place to live. 2nd is to break up with him and 3rd is to move out.
I have kept this info under my hat and with help from my sister realized I could be out as soon as the 1st of June. He is going out of town are the 3rd of June for a 4 day weekend to see his family --which would be perfect for me to act on and move out without him knowing or any kind of drama -- sounds like pretty good idea to me! I have not said a word to him about my plans to move out soon for obvious reasons since I have not had the official break up talk yet (but it IS coming).
Anyway, I am not sure who he could of heard about my plan or who might tell him anything but I got a text just 10 mins ago!!! READ THIS:
" hey babe just in case you get any crazy ideas of moving I wanted to let you know that I am having the locks changed before I go out of town unless we talk before then. When we talk after I get back I will give you your new key. love u much"
holy sh*t!!
I did not respond.
Both our names our on the lease - I guess he can change the locks but crap, I didn't expect that to happen or him to think of it! And that would totally mess up my secret plan. I don't want to go through any kind of faking him out just to get the key and I don't want him to change the locks either. I don't know how to work this out yet.....
I think this is his big fear, that I move out with out him knowing and returning home and finding this is over and he comes home to empty house (exactly what I would like to see happen - and him not know my new address).
changing the locks - changes my plan!
Badabing
DA
BB, it's all
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ugh!
I agree, bada,
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I am still looking
You're welcome, sweetheart,
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wow weird
only 3 people know
ThePlan
Chris
You owe him nothing. I knew