YouTube: Dr. Hahn

I listen to this YouTube video and found Dr. Rhoda K. Hahn comment interesting. One comment was how an NPD needs positive attention only While HPD (Histrionic Personality Disorder) will accept both positive and negative attention. Also how the Dr. Rhoda K. Hahn states how they will act in a way of how “good they are” but behind all these actions and statements is a thin veil of devaluation of “you are not”. Because they need “positive” attention and admiration this would explain why it was so good in the beginning of the relationship where supply was plentiful but chance once they stop receiving all that good supply from us in the form of attention and admiration. It explains the cheating because if they didn’t receive this supply from us they would find it in a new lover. Dr. Rhoda K. Hahn comment on “envy” would explain the need to D&D those that they would envy which again come back our way that they do and in fact envy us because of our ability to love and the bond with someone. I believe this is something they do want and in fact may of thought they might be able to achieve this thought you. Sorry but this isn’t how it (love) works but they do try again and again. Our problem of course is trying to love and bond with them which will get you hurt and then emotionally abused. It really comes down to what we can do and they can’t, again envy will play a part in this. I did like the way. Dr. Rhoda K. Hahn explains how we all start out with this “healthy narcissisms” but how it starts to be chipped away as we grow and mature. Dr. Rhoda K. Hahn comment on the aging process in all of us and how it effect the NPD.

In fact I found Dr. comment so interesting I added it to my blog site. I wanted to share it and hope some will watch it.

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