You Were Chosen

Funny this was triggered when I read the "If you listen" post.
Early on in the N relationship, I had always felt like I was "chosen". I had even mentioned it to a few people. ExNH would always refer to the fact that I am ukrainune. Why is that important? They are farmers and known to be hard workers... and he also mentioned that fact on more than one occassion of how hard working they are.
So in the early days, when your N was studying you, making sure you were a good target, take into consideration everything he was looking for...everything he's not.
And yes....I AM a hard worker. Too be he wasn't.
Through the entire relationship I didn't feel like a "partner" I felt like I was "chosen" for a specific purpose. Oh that's right, chosen to cater to him!