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#1 Nov 2 - 7AM
ready2receive
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You can forget...

Just have to say HOORAY for me and THANK YOU to all of you. The xN texted me last night - just a heart - no words.

I WASN'T EVEN TEMPTED TO RESPOND....NOT EVEN A LITTLE!

All of a sudden I realized why he texted on Nov. 1st....it was the day we got engaged.

I HAD COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN AND IT DIDN'T OCCUR TO ME DURING THE ENTIRE DAY!!

I never would have been able to maintain NC if it weren't for this forum and all of the support.

I know the hoovering will continue. I must stay strong!

Nov 2 - 4PM
Gaia
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GREAT!!

Excellent job! I know that must be very hard, your doing great :) Mine will never hoover, sometimes I wish he would just so I can get satisfaction of blanetly ignoring him, I know thats immature, but it would make me feel a lil better. he is the coldest, meanest horrible narc ever, after 8 years he will just pretend I dont exist, it really sucks. SG
Nov 2 - 9AM
Sparrow
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I am so proud of you! To

I am so proud of you! To pick a significant date to send that text, tells us that he is looking to do damage. Knowing that he can no longer succeed is awesome! Keep up the gret work!
Nov 2 - 8PM (Reply to #7)
ready2receive
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significant date

You're right, Sparrow. Damage. That's what he was aiming for...to keep me thinking about him all the time....he must sense that I'm moving on. It has nothing to do with any feelings for me...it's ALL ABOUT HIM as always. I'm waiting for him to send one at the end of the month on our wedding anniversary. I have plans to be busy that day! Thanks for your support.
Nov 2 - 8AM
indenial
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Yes it's a good feeling

When you get to the stage where you are not even tempted to respond . Had a call from my ex n last night . I wasn't even tempted to pick up. Wasn't even tempted to text or call back to see why he called because I know why he called . To mess with my head some more . Stupid fool. Doesn't he realise I've taken back my control ! Triggered a bit of anxiety but I'm ok :) . Well done us readytorecieve. Only a matter of time until we are ready to recurve real love
Nov 2 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
ready2receive
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phone calls

Wow, Indenial...that's great news. I think ignoring a phone call would be very hard. But then again, the thought of hearing xN's voice makes me sick to my stomach. Anxiety is okay. You'd have more anxiety if he was back in your life:)
Nov 2 - 8AM
Hunter
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Good job!,, Hunter

Good job!,, Hunter
Nov 2 - 8AM
eleanorjean1990
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WELL DONE!! I hope i get to

WELL DONE!! I hope i get to the stage you are at,i got a call off mine last night,my head was screaming to ignore but my heart wanted to answer...he was crocodile tears etc that he felt down but then abruptly left the conversation when i showed care to him. NC is so TRUE. keep strong x
Nov 2 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
a65703
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LOL

LOL crocodile tears!!! The first time I ever heard of this expression was when I was reading an article about N's. Cry me a river.... Keep going with NC everyone!! xx