WTF a year later...

This is the absolute truth! He married OW this past January; I didn't even know there was an OW. He told me he was taking his leave from Iraq to see me and did not show up. When he did not show up, I told him not to contact me anymore and I have stood by that since January, except this past March when I found out he got married back in January, I sent an email to let him know that I finally knew the truth about why he did not show up in January. It has not even been six months and I've caught him driving by my home, sending me emails, and calling my work phone. All the while,he is getting NC from me. Well, two weeks ago, my city flooded and due to the nature of my career, I've been working my butt off. Yesterday, I got up to check my work phone and he sent a text on it, asking how I was doing. The good part is two days before this, I had a session with my therapist that dealt with my marriage which involved physical abuse over 20 years ago. I fled the relationship after 2 years in fear of my safety. I had no clue about the PSTD that remained from that period of my life. The night after the session, I woke up wailing like a wounded animal and spent the early hours in the bathroom; I was finally going below the surface and really dealing with the trauma from when I was a very young woman. It felt like I'd delivered a baby that night. Well, when I got the text yesterday, it did not affect me at all. I was calm, still, and very peaceful. I knew in my heart that I was the bless one because I had escaped. It is so sad his poor new wife has to deal with this mess. In the meantime, my goal is to continue with my therapy so I will never have a long termed relationship with anoter narc. I am learning to trust myself and have clear boundaries,so whenever I meet another one of these bastard, I can immediately kick their a$$ to the curb.