WTF!!!!

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#1 Jan 5 - 4PM
Hunter
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WTF!!!!

My turn today! I just got, "Happy New Year, we'll chat soon"! This is such Bullshit I could scream!!! At least he answered my own question. The silent treatment is better. My heart is racing. "Damit"!

Go away Go away!!! Ahhhhhhh!

Idealk

Jan 5 - 5PM
Hunter
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He is a weird ass. Happy

He is a weird ass. Happy Holiday's.. The OW must be in Canada or her D&D just started. He's been deleted and blocked. I just posted it to show you a 6th month cycle of a Narc. He truly picked the wrong chick. Delete,Delete,Delete. for me this just makes it more clear as to what he is. A duck is still a duck!! Quack, Quack Im going drinking with my girlfriends. FOr My Texas friend... Y'all have an Ideal Evening. Hugs Idealk
Jan 5 - 7PM (Reply to #9)
gettinbetter
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back at ya and I could use a

back at ya and I could use a cocktail too!
Jan 5 - 5PM
gettinbetter
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OMG

Tried to text you back but something is wrong and my texts arent going thru and yes I paid my bill LOL! It is miraculous though that I did as lately I cant seem to remember to do a damn thing. I know your probably tempted to respond. I know I would be but dont we all know it will just bring more pain. Though it would be tempting to tell him Im sorry did you think we are friends cause thats all in your head mofo!
Jan 5 - 5PM
Amazed
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Awesome, now you know

NOW, NOW you know how to identify bull crap,,use your knowledge and stand up strong for yourself!! Do not take any more crap. NONE!!!!!!!!! CALL IT WHAT IT IS!!!!! It is a huge change, to call it what it is, tell it to yourself, you know it now, and if ANYONE tries to do this to you again, tell the STRAIGHT UP they are NOT YOUR PROBLEM!
Jan 5 - 4PM
mystwoman
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You are right. The silent

You are right. The silent treatment is better. I'd just block him. Then you can have the "silent treatment" forever. Hugs.

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Jan 5 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
Hunter
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I didn't because he was gone

I didn't because he was gone for 6 months. I will now. So wacked! Good thing I saw the shrink today!
Jan 7 - 4PM (Reply to #3)
FUMB
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is it better to ignore the

is it better to ignore the text or respond with "F U, you f'ing loser. Leave me alone!". That would feel better at least in the short term :)
Jan 7 - 5PM (Reply to #5)
mystwoman
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It's better to ignore him

It's better to ignore him completely. Narcs take ANY form of response (positive or negative) as supply. It doesn't matter to them. Supply is supply. No contact (and no supply) are the only way to get rid of them. If you respond in ANY way, the narc takes it as an invitation. They'll keep trying to suck on you just like a vampire. However, if you go NC and give them nothing, they'll eventually wither away and go find another victim to bleed dry.

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Jan 7 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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FUMB

Trust me, I'd have more to say than FU. I would love to. In fact before I figured this out I did that. If you are prepared be devalued to a pulp. Respond and see what happens. I'm prety sure whatever he said to me now i would find it humorous. Why? because he is no different thanany other narc here. I think there is a D &D book out there! Remember, liars, users & losers. He sent That as I m sure he D & D the other women. He is looking for supply. I played this game with him twice with him. I'm not up for round three. Read here, it's the same BS different guy. It gets predictable after a while. He can rot with his dog and mother. You'll get there. NC is the only way. I still have my moments but I won't go back! Hugs Ideak