WTF
WTF
I am sorry, but I need to rant. I just can't believe this man. Who is he to tell me that I need to just get over it and move on. Who is he to tell me that it is time for us to be friends. He is in la la land. It is amazing the hell he can put me and his family through, and just think that I should just forgive him and get over it on his time clock. I do want to get over this pain that i have endured, but not so I can be friends with him. Not so that I can forgive him. I want to be over all of this for me and my kids. Please....I don't understand. How can somone beg for reconcilliation last weekend, and then tell me he is bringing GF back home to meet mama next weekend for her birthday! How can I take any of his feelings seriously? How can I believe he had true remorse, when he just turns around the following weekend and throws himself back into GF. What the hell. This is insane? Right? So, the only thing I can believe is that any emotions he says he genuinly felt about working on our marrigae was BS. THen he said to me, I tried, but you turned me down, so of course I am going to take GF home. He made it out like I was the crazy one. Like he tried, and I was the ungrateful, ragefull one. He screws over me and the kids, has affair with GF, drives his family across country so he can live with GF, and I am the crazy one, who is angry, and doesn't appreciate him.
I honestly can say that I feel deep hatred towards this man right now. I am sure, he is sitting in his hotel tonight thinking, see she is angry. She is toxic. I am so glad I am with GF. He doesn't ever understand the hell he put us through.
He doesn't care about the hell he put us through. He only cares about himself. He thinks...yeah, I crapped on you, but you should be a big person and forgive me and my GF. Make it all easy for him. I have no desire to purposefully make anything hard on him. but guess what, I think I have a right to my feelings, and I have a right to whatever process I need to go through to heal myself, for myself and my kids....NOT FOR HIM!
Please advise if I am seeing this incorrectly...
....
Mallory
i think
http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview
nolongercontrolled