Won't be attending

So now it looks like I won't be attending my step-daughters wedding now. He has told her that if I am going, he will not be. Obviously that's her dad, and she wants him to walk her down the isle... so I'm now dis-invited. It will be quite easy to go no contact now. I can't believe he is so f-ing selfish .... but I really.. why would I expect anything different. I hate him.. more and more... I fucking hate him.