Will He or Won't He?
Will He or Won't He?
My narc, the last I had of it was planning to move in with a new woman living about 250 miles away from him. He bragged she had money, she has an expensive home3, successful business... looks like a great set up for a narc.
He fast forwarded her predictably (she is an attractive looking woman so, I'm thinking trophy woman), put his house on the market last month to sell (overpriced compared to value). I know he had started packing up his things at the time the house was put on the market. They are two months into their "relationship".
While I know he's a definite narc, and not capable of loving anyone, she represents to him a step up over me, with a very modest house and few monetary resources. As he bragged, it's all about what she can do for him!
Is he using her? Oh yeah! Without a doubt. I think he's still living in his old home until it sells, with plans to move with her then.
Yes, I suppose it is fair to say I still have a few residual feelings for the pretend/fantasy man I thought he was. I am realistic enough to know that actual guy that he is has nothing I want or need. Normal healthy me, wants a real man able to be in an normal, intimate, loving relationship. And that is what I'm going to hold out for. No question about that.
One thing BTW, I'm especially loving is that this "man" is not dominating my thoughts like he used to. I wake up in the morning, and I immediately start planning my day, what I'll do, what I'll eat etc. thoughts of him come last, and I do feel largely unemotional about him. He's more of an after thought now after my mind has ticked off all the aspects involved int he day to day business of living. I'm very happy about that.
Still though, its hard not to be at least a little curious.
My question is, once his house sells if it stays on the market long enough, say six months or so, do you think the the future with this woman will take place or will the narc in him just be a future fake?
Your thoughts?
Turned icy
If he's a narc like mine....
He's putting on the "moves" but I've yet to see anything they do
It's a shame that yet another woman will be a victim
Soaper Girl
Narc quickly rebounding with new woman
Mine was grooming a new girl too
You're absolutely right mines
Hmmm two months and she is
Hmmm two months and she is
Hey soapergirl I wouldn't
You'd think that would be the case
soapergirl even if he doesn't
That's True, Narcs Bore Easily esp with sick targets
First 3 weeks he fast-forwarded (isolated) her in his home
Oh okay i see yeah well he is
I don't think she's going to get off scott-free either
yeah that female dog played a