why we are drawn to narcissists and why we are a magnet to them
why we are drawn to narcissists and why we are a magnet to them
http://www.thespiritualeclectic.com/2010/08/22/the-relationship-between-...
did Lisa's blog of the same title resonate with anyone else?? it was so eye opening to me, explaining why i put up his odd and selfish behavior and felt his pain. other women easily walked away from him, women i thought just had higher self esteem, but they were not empaths. between the empathic feelings and his manipulation my emotions got so enmeshed with his to the point i was barely functioning. my family didn't validate my strong empathic feelings growing up so i was used to that with the N. it was problematic with some guys, but with the N it was completely toxic and obsessive. i'd love to hear if many/most of us are empaths.
it still hurts but it's one more step in understanding. anyone else an empath??
5 days NC, marissa
Empaths
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