First of all, let's agree, these guys are not right.
The mind games they play are beyond me, beyond human, completely stupid and not worth "playing" however playing isn't a word when you describe a "relationship" with a psychopath/pathological Narc.
Why do we go back to "search" the N/pathological on FB, all that....
Why do we need to keep up with them.
We don't need to keep up with them.
Sorry for lack of a better word, they are detrimental to you, their society, family.
How many of you have seen the detriment! I want to know!
Then why do we search them, keep tabs on them....
I want to be narc free...
In my healing, it is to make sure he doesn't ever, ever come back...
Do you feel safe? Is it because you feel you are in danger, want to protect youself, prove something, or because you want smut?