Why the relationship failed

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#1 May 20 - 9AM
neverlookback
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Why the relationship failed

I asked myself that question a few days ago, well we all know the obvious reason, but never never did the psycho tell me why it failed - lets see now oh now I remember - "I cant do this anymore" was a comment he made a few weeks before it was over - mmmmm cant do WHAT anymore? ACT? is that what you "cant do anymore" ??? But never never was there a logical narrative on his part - "you are too needy, "its just not working for me anymore", "you have too many issues of insecurity", those seem to be the popular explanations they give when they get bored and want to move on to other supply and new enablers - If you stop and remember what their reasons were for wanting out and ending it, it had absolutely NOTHING to do with what a real loving relationship is all about, and there is a reason for that - because it was never a real loving relationship to begin with.

I will always remember that "I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE" - thats because your facade, persona and con is up with me - so move on to someone else who will believe it as I once did - go put on a shiny new mask and go be a different person to someone else - that is what all your relationships are - of course it ends when you simply "CANT DO IT ANYMORE"

Jul 19 - 1PM
Canada
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Another unfriend

Jul 19 - 12PM
Narcbait
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At the end I unfriended him

Jul 19 - 12PM
owenjohnston
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"I can't be myself around you

May 22 - 9AM
SkinnyBuffalo
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Same line I got. Then he

May 22 - 10AM (Reply to #50)
LoserFree
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Skinny don't you worry about

May 21 - 7PM
Journey
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That is exactly the words my

Journey on...

May 21 - 7PM (Reply to #48)
neverlookback
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Journey

May 21 - 3PM
Reason2Believe
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I was a failed plan...

May 21 - 3PM (Reply to #45)
Lucky Escape
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They analyse, plot and plan

May 21 - 4PM (Reply to #46)
Reason2Believe
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You are so right

May 21 - 3PM
Reason2Believe
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If at any time I doubt

May 21 - 1PM
Grymel
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Trying to remember the many reasons he gave me

May 21 - 5PM (Reply to #42)
HelpMeHeal
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"What would you like me to say? This just isn't going to work"..

May 21 - 1PM
Reason2Believe
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Fat, bald, bloated tick

May 21 - 3AM
aceonelady
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Why my relationship failed narc ways

Aceonelady

May 21 - 3AM
eyeswideopen35
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Omg! I got that too... " I

May 21 - 3AM
no more an echo
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poor narc-boy is EXHAUSTED!

Jul 19 - 11AM (Reply to #37)
TruthbeginsToday
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Yep, this is them

May 22 - 8AM (Reply to #36)
brinamarie
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LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!

May 21 - 6PM (Reply to #35)
neverlookback
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WOW

May 21 - 3AM (Reply to #34)
Lucky Escape
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NME

May 21 - 1AM
Lucky Escape
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I've had enough...

May 21 - 12AM
flowers
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i would get

May 20 - 4PM
onwithmylife
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NLB

May 21 - 6PM (Reply to #30)
neverlookback
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I just thought of something else

May 20 - 4PM
chris53
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I remember it so well my

May 20 - 2PM
Belle de jour
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Funny, I can't answer that

May 20 - 2PM
wsh
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Funny, I also heard

May 21 - 4PM (Reply to #26)
beautifulmess
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Oh.. Besides the pms.. "you

May 20 - 8PM (Reply to #25)
OneDay@aTime
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WSH...I think we may have been