Why NC is so good for you .
Why NC is so good for you .
There is no doubt that the narc lives in a diffrent world from the rest of humanity , when we are with them and trying to understand them they draw us into this twisted world using coercion , trance , brainwashing , lies , in short they pervert reality . What you find with going nc is you slowly slip into the normal world and you can begin to look at the narc from that perspective .It doesnt happen over night though it is a very long prossess . Im 7 months nc and i am still having to catch myself seeing things from the narc point of view and i consciously have to put normal world thinking in its place .
It has been the hardest 7 months of my life ,there have been times when i thought i wasnt going to make it but i knew that i had to because to go back and talk to him would take me back to disordered narc land and i knew this time i would never get out again i just had to say "head down joey and get through this , there are better days ahead " and on the really bad days the phrase "dig deep" saw me through and on the really bad bad days "pass me the fucking bottle" was the only way foward.
What saw me through all this was this site and you wonderful women and that is why we are here , to encorage and listern and advise to anyone starting out on nc .
Please trust me the times i have broken nc i have payed dearly for the next few weeks , i have in this time thought i could go to a party where he was at ... wrong ....i thought i could answer him when he wanted to see me .. wrong ....i thought i could shout at him ... wrong .... . No contact is just that no contact .
Lets share our stories and feelings of nc xxxx( sorry about the spelling im on my mobile )
I swear these Narc's can tell
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First-hand experience with contact--avoid if possible
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