Why Is It So Hard to Say No?
Why Is It So Hard to Say No?
Trying with all my might to not step in another pile of narc shite. On complete NC with CharlieSheenWinning for 4 1/2 months. Enter another guy who is trying to get me on the hook. He's got an on/off girlfriend that he keeps telling me he's "done" with. But I know better. He'll get me on the hook and go back to her when she wants him. Then he'll lie to me about it. I was in this situation before with CharlieSheenWinning. It's like a bad rerun of a bad tv show.
I'm not sure if this guy is a narc, but I know he's bad for me.
Last night we kissed after he kept cajoling. Gotta say, dude isn't the best kisser, even. Totally mistakes aggression for passion. Blurgh.
I keep telling him I'm not going on a date with him because I know he's still with not-so-ex GF. He's not listening -- I heard him tell a mutual friend when she told him to lay off me that he will "try everything" to get me on the hook.
As I told our mutual friend last night on the way home, "I have no boundaries, I'm desperate for love, and I can't say no. It's a bad combination."
I just feel so guilty and don't want to hurt feelings by saying no. This is how I get hooked. But even if I say no and give reasons why, men don't seem to listen. They just try harder.
I won't give in to him, but what can I do to not feel bad about saying no? Am I crazy? Why is it so difficult to say no to someone I don't want anyway?
Learning to say no
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Yes, it takes two to do the
YAY! I'm so happy to see you
He's sent two texts, which I
new guy
His so-called ex is actually
Take time to heal
Good suggestion
Lobo, you ave come a long
"You had the distraction, now
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Ozzy might be a better kisser, tho'!
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Saying no
Lobo I understand. I really
"Is it just in your romantic
Knock Knock Lobo
A narc, narc joke! Love it!
@lobo