Why the hiding?
Why the hiding?
Fireguy and I belong to the same gym. Unfortunately, that is where I met this creep, too. We are both pretty dedicated to staying fit so this has been very difficult for me and I stopped going for 3 months. My counselor told me that I need to start going again so I can regain control. She told me by not going I was letting him have control still. She is definitely right about that. However, I HATE seeing him and its not easy for me to go...but I'm trying, even though I have relapses and don't go.
Well, we both arrived at the same time to the gym and when he saw me, he drove out of the parking lot and parked across the street and waited for me to go in. WHAT A TOTAL WEIRDO! He is hiding from me, like I'm the bad guy or something? My counselor thinks he is "embarrassed" for the way he treated me etc.etc...but I'm totally confused and don't know what to think about this? I'd appreciate your thoughts, I'm not having a good day. Thanks so much for caring and support.
angelgal
Barbara, he did a doubletake
angelgal
I am not sure I agree with
I agree, change your gym and
Ending the dance
I have to agree
Jessika, I agree with you wholeheartedly
Get rid of the gym thing
Rache, he has no self esteem...
Mine
Do you think they
I just got involved with the same N for the second time.
What was I thinking? Because I have put myself back to the same point where I am blaming myself again. And for what?
I want to get rid of these feelings again.
Not sure, No More
angelgal
You couldn't be more right, Quietude
Yep. Cowards, Cowards, Cowards... all of them!
Great rules, Jessika!
jessika
This is a hard question
I just got involved with the same N for the second time.
What was I thinking? Because I have put myself back to the same point where I am blaming myself again. And for what?
I want to get rid of these feelings again.
guilt?