Why does my heart feel so bad?
Why does my heart feel so bad?
I suspect he has moved on..or that he has somebody else. I saw without an actual intention that he updated his picture, on some common aquitance post. And I didn`t resisted and looked him to see how he is..
And he`s fine, he even laughed in a coupple of posts, and seems strong, empowered even. Now..I know I should feel relieved, or happy because at least, he is doing okay it seems, but why do I feel like I have failed somehow?
I know he is not deep or profound, even made that magick list of good points vs bad points, and the bad list was waaay longer than the good list. Then made a list with stuff I love about myself, and stuff I wish to change, and felt a little better.
But somehow I still feel wrong..I might have made a mistake, I mentioned to some aquitance and old friends, that "I miss the old good times", that I miss my old good times with my old friends. And I told in some of my older posts, that he may have spied me on FB, modified settings and so on. And for a week or so, nothing. Not a change, not a blink.
He got me used with those changes, like Pavlov`s dog with the reflex! And when nothing happened, I was laughing to myself, that I might have some Cognitive Dissonance or Stocklom Syndrome, because suddenly, he vanished. From everywhere, and I started "missing" his presence, as much as someone can miss him..I know, WRONG.
Dear ladies and gentlemen of the jury, why can`t I be happy finally if he is possible for him to be with someone else, or just living me alone? Why do I feel like he punishes me, with silent treatment, and anger? And most important issue, why do I care?..
I shouldn`t care, I should be glad if it`s over, r if he takes his tantrums on someone else. But I`m not really, I feel like I have failed, like I lost him forever. And I don`t know what to do.
I gave him what he wanted, I set him free, well tried. Why can`t I feel happy now that it seems to be all over?
Thank you for listening, and if you have an opinion or advice abut this, I would be glad to hear it.
greengirl
Dearest greengirl,
spinning
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Greengirl91
EiPuff, thank you for