why does this lesson have to be so painful
why does this lesson have to be so painful
I just hate hate this. I hate that i was out today... taking care of me... get home to an email from Narc stupidly open the damn friggin thing... when i broke Nc i sent one to him basically ending it..after he started his games..i was getting physically ill by them...and he started this odd conversation about a crisis he was in and how he fearful he was that i would tell backupgirl.....
. well he had an issue with that email of course and today DAYS later replies.days..wtf!! then says he will be in touch...is he even serious...really. like he didnt read what i had wrote. i did the stupid usual and called his cell phone...ive been blocked...wtf... so i did the bold thing and called his house line.. hoping the stupid naive backup was there to hear...told him i am DONE DONE... honey...we are done. that there seems to be a misunderstanding and i dont know who you think i am but im not some sorry sap we are done..
I was very very calm..not raging like he would be. ..and that was that.
i just want to shake this crying...this dwelling on such a loser....
i had already had him blocked on my cell(cant figure the land line out) but didnt have this one email of his blocked...LOSER he thinks he is going to be in touch... wth.
and in part of the email he made it seem as if i was the ONE pursing him all these months...it is so sick...that is what made me cry the most tonite. mentioned how im not to send pics to his phone like i did in the past..as it is not secure...wth...( never could figure out why i wasnt given the secret email account... or an email that was more secure0 just makes NO SENSE he is so friggin sick...HE SENT me naked pics of himself... and now suddenly it is not secure and he needs me to know this...why??
the one friend i can talk to about this blames me for being the ow...and now i feel like such a low life. a loser.
my therapist- he left a msg if i still needed to come in... i thought I was doing Ok, obviously not since im back to crying over this narc.
I blame myself for everything.... he destroyed so much of my life..soooo much. today for a day i regained it until that email. this is just the same old pattern...my friend made me promise to never talk to him again. she said you left that msg tonite now really mean ...you have to really mean you are done. she said he is NOT a friend...friends would not treat you this way..it is abuse...you are being and have been abused. :(
i fear he is going to come seek me out in person as he always feared i would tell backup woman everything... i have enough on him to end his entire world...i have to admit for the first time im scared.
Destiny...OMG...this is so
The one friend you can talk
thanks - i just dont have
Hi Destiny
thanks and I do have him
Destiny