Why does he hate me so much????

Ok I know I have been at this for sometime now and I understand the narc/psycho make up and all the it entails. But his hatefulness towards me sometimes really still catches me off guard.

Let's recap, first his a sick a-hole, didn't know when I met him and married him but for the first 8 years I ran circles around him because I didn't know what was happening. Put up with the rages, the cheating the lying the emotional deadness of the marriage. All the while he is having his fun behind my back. Then I find out and finally had enough, find out my "I can't put my finger on what's wrong" feeling was caused by the fact he is a sick a-hole. So I leave.

He had his fun at my expense, at the children expense, at the expense of our marriage. I left him with the one thing that matter most to him, our house, so why is he angry????

After one year and 4 months NC, he gets a letter that I was late on a payment to some property that we once owned together and he sends me an email laced in anger. And I wondering why bother? He didn't try and email me or contact me when our daughter had her first baby, when she graduated, but a late letter gets him to send an email? Thank God I changed our telephone numbers, and blocked him from our personal emails. Unfortunately the best I can do at work is set it up for his emails to go straight to delete file. While clearing that up today I saw it, he must know that is happening because he puts his entire message on the subject field.

I did NOTHING to him except protect myself from him. Stupid A-Hole.

Sorry I just had to vent.

Joy2me