why am I having dreams about OW? & more

Hello,

I'm still reading this site as much as possible. I haven't talked to N since the beginning of the year and my head has finally come out of the clouds. It all makes so much sense.

I have no idea if this woman I keep dreaming about is the OW or not? I have no clue and I really don't care since I realize now that he is a narc. He never let me in and always was very aloof and 3 pages of red flags or weird statments I have written down.

I also keep thinking about him. but not in the sense of going crazy of the questions. It's more just he keeps popping up in my head. Or I read something and it reminds me of him.

Does anyone else experience this even after almost three months of not talking to him.

I guess part of it is he was "suppose" to be moving. And I wonder if he did, not that it matters. But I don't know what I would do if I ran into him or saw him. I think he would just ignore me and pretend that he didn't know who I was.