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#1 Aug 6 - 12PM
RubyWoo
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Why?

If he needs space, needs to be alone right now, needs to get his shit together and is the one who took all his stuff and moved out... why does he get upset when he sends emails and I don't reply?

I got 3 today...

Email 1 - I miss you a lot, I would like to see you but I know it would hurt you, mentions all the things that went wrong, finishes with I love you but I hate you

Email 2 - Says he is remembering lots of good things about us today

Email 3 - Gets angry and says ok I wont ask to see you again

What?

Aug 6 - 8PM
Done sourcing
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He wants to get you

He wants to get you emotionally charged. If someone has to be upset, let it be him. Assclowns don't stay upset for long. If he isn't a psycho don't give it another thought. It's easier to keep them gone than to get them gone, so don't let him back in if you want to grow and get over it once and for all. If he is a disordered one, he will never get better. People don't usually move out to be alone and get their shit together...they usually move out to get together with someone else because they don't even know how to begin to get their shit together. And they don't know how to be alone. Proof is he wants to get into your head, so how does that compute with him being alone and getting his shit together. Seems that his moving out didn't help him get it together at all. I hope it helped you get it together enough to delete him from your life! ds
Aug 6 - 5PM
Susan32
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That's how my nephew thinks...

But my nephew is nearly 2! Toddlers engage in such push/pull, but that's because they're TODDLERS and immature! Pathetic when it's coming from a grown man.
Aug 6 - 5PM
Sparrow
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He is very manipulative! He

He is very manipulative! He knows exactly what he is doing. Don't fall back into his trap!
Aug 6 - 12PM
Hunter
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He's a text book Narc! Read

He's a text book Narc! Read and learn. live or die! Delete,Delete,Delete. Hunter