Whoo Hoo!!! After Today, I'm Rid Of Him (Hopefully Forever)

Yes, it's true. My "happy feet" are dancing today. Xnh and I have worked at the same company for 21 years now. Sad to say, I even met him at work. He gave his notice of termination a few weeks ago, in order to start his "lofty" future career as a satellite television installer, and today is xnh's final day on the job here. Our employer is NOT known for rehiring former employees, so xnh's chances of returning are most likely slim to none. :) My goal is currently to make it through the rest of today without any glimpse of xnh or his ugly, bald, narc head.

He is moving 550 miles away to be closer to his mommy, and also from what I've heard, OW has told xnh that he will either move in with her where she currently lives, as "man" and wife, or she is planning to divorce him. I use the term "man" very loosely here when applied to xnh. rofl.

OW apparently, also, reminded xnh that this would be his third divorce, he's 50 years old, and that he hasn't managed to save enough retirement funds to have a pot to piss in during his old age. All is apparently not bliss in "paradise". Go figure. OW is stuck with xnh, and he has not changed one single bit since our divorce (nor will he ever change because he is narc). I suspect that, in the near future, the Karma Bus is about to run over both xnh and OW. She's stuck in a marriage with an abusive, narc turd, and xnh is apparently just flat-out walking away from his mortgage on the fancy new house he bought after our divorce. He's "owned" this house for a mere 21 months.

From what I've heard, xnh is simply moving out and quickly planning his second bankruptcy. The house is NOT on the market, and I've been told that he's leaving it for his hideous P daughter (and her current gang boyfriend) to live in, rent free. Knowing xnh, it probably hasn't occurred to him yet that SOMEONE must continue making the house payment (planning and forethought are NOT among xnh's strongest traits). Xnh's hideous P daughter is currently pregnant with her second child, has never been married, has a drug problem, and has existed on welfare for years. She has been fired at least 7 times, that I know about, because she absolutely REFUSES to support herself. She is a true parasite, and working for a living is definitely not among HER strongest traits either. In any case, I sincerely doubt that the bank is going to "forget" that xnh still owes buckets of money on that mortgage, just because he chose to waltz across state lines and live elsewhere. I, also, doubt the hideous P daughter is going to pay xnh's mortgage either.

However, none of this is of any importance to me ever again, and I will no longer have to hear about any of it in my future. For the first time in 21 years, I will be able to come to work and NOT have to ever worry about seeing xnh in the halls, hearing his voice at work, or having to listen to an "update" from any co-workers because they're "worried" about my not having heard some smut concerning xnh. I'M RID OF HIM IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE NOW.

Today is a GOOD day for me, and I have a smile on my face that is about a mile wide. I'm now able to completely shut the door on everything concerning xnh, and continue forward in my already very happy future without him ANYWHERE in it. I'm very happy now knowing that xnh will not be surfacing at work EVER AGAIN. For me, this narc nightmare with xnh is truly O-V-E-R. I'm completely FREE of the jerk.

Tonight I think I'll get a bunch of my friends together and celebrate at a restaurant by having a "wheels up" party. As of the end of my work shift, the airplane has left the tarmac, the wheels are up, and xnh is finally GONE. Whoo Hoo! It's PARTY TIME!!

I sincerely thank God from very bottom of my heart that xnh is leaving. Today I am very, very grateful to have been granted the opportunity for a happy future, in which xnh exists ABSOLUTELY NOWHERE AT ALL. I feel very blessed and grateful to have escaped this very damaging relationship with a narc so completely. My life (and future happiness) is looking really GOOD to me. :) :) :)