Where is the justice in all of this?
Where is the justice in all of this?
I was thinking this morning, about how far we all have come. Each and every one of us share so much in common, but the healing process is unique to each of us. We have to go through breaking NC sometimes, lots of tears, regrets, CD…but eventually, once we go through the process, we come out on the other side, at peace and victorious …and perhaps, better than we were before the narc experience. That said, some here (including me) have asked…’’where is the justice for us?’’ (and their other victims) And it’s often been said, that leading a peaceful and happy life, is often the best ‘revenge.’ (for lack of a better word, we know we shouldn’t SEEK revenge) And I thought to myself, I am happier without him. I have rediscovered my life, and enjoy being off of that website that we once used to chat through together. I never thought I’d be able to stand strong and leave behind all those things that kept me attached, but with God, I did. I hear through the grapevine that he’s in a relationship, and yet also has his profile active and up on a dating website. (hear this through mutual friends) And I thought…Dee, you have changed for the better. He is still wallowing in his own personal hell-dom. Of his own doing. Dating someone who he probably tells he loves, yet he is still openly active on a dating website. How sad for her. I prayed for that girl today, when I heard this news. I prayed that somehow, she wakes up to the real him. For he is a bad man. He is, and he doesn’t deserve to hurt another woman. He doesn’t. But, it’s out of my hands, but I prayed. That said, I have high hopes for my future, now. I’m smiling again, and sleeping well again. He, on the other hand…is still the lost soul I left behind. So, therein lies the proof everyone. Justice comes to us, but maybe not quite as you’d expect. Take care and enjoy the weekend!!
Deidre
sara
All my narcs have either died
Thank you Dee, and yes, by
Beautiful post
Ditto Deidre
rosedewitt
Deidre40
dabussard
Deidre40
How I got my revenge...
Oh Susan, that is so great.
It would be "Bored this way"