I guess I should be happy and vindicated but I am just dazed. I got a call from the infamous "Sandy" that the foster child always talked about and that the narc told me I would meet some day-she was "an old friend." They have been together for twenty years. twenty flipping years.
I guess I called her last month while I was dialing everyone in his phone that night, but she never called back until now.
So this is long term, committed relationship number two--besides me. Twenty freaking years! I told her all the details and she totally didn't believe any of the abuse. I gave her the phone numbers of the other women and the police report number from when he beat me up.
I can just picture them talking right now and him glossing it over and saying I'm insane.
We're just wrapping presents for my daughters teachers and I'm pretending it never happened.