When will this feeling end?
When will this feeling end?
Is normal to have a huge relapse after a year has passed?
I had been doing so well. Screwed up a few months ago, then got back on track, and now I’m screwed up again. What is going on with me?
I am so angry. I am so angry at him. I feel like he shit on me so many times and walked away and I was left with all the baggage.
So last night I did the really brainy act of having one too many drinks, and then I contacted him. I have no idea what I thought I would accomplish. I have always been proud that I’ve never been a drunk dialler, now I messed that up for myself too.
A few months ago, we stopped being “friends” because he acted like a child when I didn’t respond to a text. I got so mad and told him he was immature and I hated him.
I brought that up and his response was that he apologized and he’s not talking about it anymore. It’s in the past.
Which is true. But when we were together, that’s how it always was. We talked when HE wanted to and everything was always "in the past".
Last night, I told him that that’s why our relationship never worked, because he twists things and blames me for everything. And if he does admit wrong doing, there is no discussion of it. It’s “in the past”.
I don’t drink often. But when I do, I usually feel guilty because I end up saying whatever is on my mind.
He knows this about me - that I feel a lot of guilt.
Last night he says, are you drunk “again”. As if I do it so frequently. i don't.
I feel so stupid and ashamed of myself. I told him last night that he is a selfish self absorbed prick, abusive, and that he takes his issues about his mother out on every woman.
I got on a roll and couldn’t stop myself.
He told me we broke up a long time ago and its time for me to move on and that I have issues and I should deal with them and it’s in the past and to never contact him again.
The shitty thing is, he is right.
And I managed to make myself look like the nut job he thinks I am.
I just want so bad for him to feel some remorse. Anything. Acknowledge that he was wrong. I know that’s like asking for the moon.
He was over everything right after we broke up and I STILL am dealing with it.
Now not only am I still angry, I feel so pathetic for contacting him and telling him off. I look like a screwball and feel like one too.
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