When they call other people narcissists...
When they call other people narcissists...
So the first time we had a major breakup, I went to therapy and the therapist said he is definitely a narcissist. Same with the 2nd one I went to after the next big breakup. I told him this each time we got back together.
He looked it up and only focused on the "need for attention". He vehemently denies that he is a narcissist. It came up again recently.
The nice guy I dated 8 months after I broke up with him is Cuban and kind of flashy - ok VERY flashy! LOL! He wears lots of jewelry, wears all the trendiest clothes, drives a red Ferrari and a Rolls, has quite the watch collection, etc.... I thought it was all cute - I liked the man, not his stuff. To me the flashiness was part of his Latin background and his love for life.
My absent fiance N said "SEE, now you know what a REAL narcissist is like. He needs all that attention, I don't." I told him all of us have some narcissistic tendencies, but that alone doesn't make him a narcissist. AND I told him, he treated me like gold- was never mean to me, said a cross word to me or ANYTHING. He insists that nice guy is a narcissist anyway.
He also started telling me that *I* am selfish and that I like to argue. I think the difference was that I was calling him on his BS and after a year apart, I had started sticking up for myself. I think that's part of why he disappeared - I didn't let him get away with his crap anymore.
Has anyone else experienced ther N calling other people narcissists?
He would say his "brother"
I think....
He called me a narcissist
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